Over-explaining.
Promising you’ll change.
Saying things will be different now.
The more you try to prove something… the more you show that you’re trying to convince her.
And a man who needs to convince… has already lost his position.
While you’re talking, she’s just reinforcing the decision she already made.
Because promises made under pressure don’t sound like strength.
They sound like fear.
And when she senses fear…
she stops seeing you as the man she once admired.
It’s not what you say that changes her decision.
It’s the posture you demonstrate.
And posture isn’t explained.
It’s shown.